good morning! all of the photos for today have no relation t..

good morning! all of the photos for today have no relation to the text and THATS OK! lol I wanted to start today off with 12 questions that I try to reflect on during No Screens Day. I'm terrified of complacency, so this list keeps me in check. Try reflecting on these questions. They have helped me through this past year with growth. The last one is important! Take notes :) 🌸Who do you spend your time with? Who we know and what we do that influences more than any other factor, who we will become. 🌸 Is this in my control? We waste incredible amounts of time on the latter and leave so many opportunities on the table by mislabeling the former. Our actions, our thoughts, our feelings, are up to us. 🌸 What does your ideal day look like? If you don’t know what your ideal day looks like, how are you ever going to make decisions or plans for ensuring that you actually get to experience them on a regular basis? 🌸 To be or to do? In life there is a roll call and it sorts people by their answer to this question, the doers and those who simply pretend. Which will you be? Which have you been? 🌸 If I am not for me, who is? "If I Am Only For Me, Who Am I?" The alternative translation of that last part is “If I am only only for me, what am I?” The answer is “the worst.” 🌸What am I missing by choosing to worry? What important things are you missing because you chose to worry over introspection, alertness, or wisdom? 🌸Am I doing my job? Do you even know what that job is? It’s important to remember that we can be very busy—exhaustingly busy—and still not be doing our job. 🌸What is the most important thing? If you don’t know what the most important thing is to you, how do you know if you’re putting it first? How do you know if you’re taking the right steps to get it. 🌸Who is this for? If you’re making something, selling something, trying to reach people you have to be able to answer this question. It is shocking how many entrepreneurs, writers, salesmen, even politicians never bother to stop and go: Who the hell is my audience here? (I struggle with this one a lot because I want to sell the image of intimacy, connection, and authenticity. but most of my audience just want sex.) 🌸Does this actually matter? Given the shortness of life, does this thing I’m thinking about, worrying about, fighting about, throwing myself into even fucking matter? 🌸Will this be alive time or dead time? Deadtime—where we are just waiting and Alive time—where we are learning and active and leveraging. 🌸Is this who I want to be? You can’t be a good person if your actions are consistently bad. You can’t be a hardworking person if you take every shortcut you can. It doesn’t matter that you say you love someone, it only matters if you *show* that you love them. (I also struggle with this one. I want to be hard working. I want to be disciplined and resilient, but my body doesn't let me. I need to prioritize my health so that my body can work hard and show up!) #funfactfriday